The Autism Turnaround Mindset Guide Y our questions answered. What I had to und

The Autism Turnaround Mindset Guide Y our questions answered. What I had to understand to change my child. Don’t forget the free audio that accompanies this PDF. FREE AUDIO GUIDE © B A R E F O O T A U T I S M WA R R I O R S | N I N K A - B E R N A D E T T E M A U R I T S O N . A L L R I G H T S R E S E R V E D . 2 The Healer’s Mindset What you must know before you begin. WHY IS MY MINDSET IMPORTANT? Why you must shift from victim to grateful. Autism is an initiation. I regard autism parents as medicine women/men. Medicine women have highly developed intuition and healing capacities because they have been through very hard experiences in life. They can heal others because they have been in the dark places and found the light by healing themselves. This is your initiation. The most common mistake we make as parents is discounting our own soul-journey, because we are so desperate to save our child. Unfortunately, we can only help, heal and facilitate the journey for our child, if we have healed, helped and understood ourselves. Working on the soul, stillness, meditation and mindset gets you where you need to be to be prepared. THE BAREFOOT AUTISM WARRIOR JOURNEY You have been chosen because you are light warrior who grow through pain and walk through the tunnel of darkness into light so that you can show others to heal their children the same way. All medicine women have been through grief, pain or massive challenges in life, so that they can go to the darkest places with people in despair and lead them to the light. Your journey is walking through autism and becoming the healer. I had to quit parent groups that were all about how hard it is to have a child with autism, because it took away my power and turned me into a helpless victim. The victim mentality is contagious and dis- empowering. Choose words, people and communities that support your power – not your helplessness. It’s an illusion. WHY DID MY CHILD GET AUTISM? How can I change it? Ask yourself: What good does it do to focus on the past? What if every part of this journey is part of a bigger plan? Who am I to question or blame the roads that lead me to the portal of change and healing? In my experience, autism is a messenger. The message is for you. And it goes far beyond your child’s © B A R E F O O T A U T I S M WA R R I O R S | N I N K A - B E R N A D E T T E M A U R I T S O N . A L L R I G H T S R E S E R V E D . 3 The Autism Turnaround Mindset Guide symptoms and your situation. The message is: “something’s gotta change”. Our food, our modern lifestyle, our community, our un-natural zoo lifestyle, detached from our soul, our ancestral health, the elements and nature. When we listen to the message, symptoms will often change. You probably already have an idea of what you need to change in your life to get to a better place. Autism takes you to a place of exhaustion, so that you have no choice but surrender and change. This is a test. What will you do? Will your surrender to change? Or will you fall and expect someone or something to tell you why this happened and then pick you up? Helpless people need a savior. Warriors save themselves – and inspire others to do the same. WHY YOU MUST GO FIRST… You can only heal someone you love if you love yourself enough to heal, parent and nourish yourself. Body, mind, and soul. You go first, the child goes further. You need a strong, healthy body to be able to go to war. If we go into a warzone or become soldiers, we prepare, run, exercise, and get strong. If someone wants to run a marathon, the preparation starts a year before the race. Food, exercise, and strength training are crucial. No one shows up on race day without physical preparation. THE COST OF BEING UNPREPARED Autism turnarounds are hard work. It requires strength. Physical strength, emotional strength and spiritual strength. It pushes you to your limits due to sleep deprivation, exhaustion, stress, fear, noises, terror, challenges and little to no support from the outside world. It will expose and force you to face guilt, life, decisions, lies, longings, your lifestyle, regret, anger, shame, self-sabotage, trauma, pain and grief. You have to be prepared for this. If you are not, you will burn out, ruin your life, and your relationships. If you do not prepare, you will be pushed into a state of survival, self-sabotage, self-protection mechanisms, and negative thoughts. You will feel like eating to comfort yourself and numb your feelings. You feel like running away. You will feel like delegating the responsibility to others. I am here to tell you that the hardship and pain are pieces of the puzzle designed to make you grow into a bad ass healer. You can do it. And I am here to help. © B A R E F O O T A U T I S M WA R R I O R S | N I N K A - B E R N A D E T T E M A U R I T S O N . A L L R I G H T S R E S E R V E D . 4 When did you see results? When will I see results? Print this out and hang it on your wall: The more you work on you, the more you change your child and everyone you love. There is no quicker way. I know that you are keen to get into the details of food, nutrition, lifestyle changes, and testing. Unless you re-wire your mindset, you will struggle and prolong the journey. It is your energy, your mindset and your level of awareness that determines how successful the journey will be for your child. If you skip this step you will feel like everything you do gets you little to no results except more confusion and overwhelm because of all the different solutions out there that work for other children, but not for your child. Some changes happened after one month (sleeping through the night), when we changed everything. Some things took my son 6 months to achieve (eye contact, the end of tantrums and rituals/stimming). I did not dare to say that he was free from symptoms before 3 years had passed with ongoing progression. He is still developing. At age 16 he passed all of his exams and learned English, got his college degree at age 18. This is all because of the methods I now share with other warrior parents. It is a path. It requires patience. There’s a mystical, sacred contract between you, the child and Divine Intelligence. Healing will happen by priority. But not by your priority. Let go of your attachment to outcome. Have patience and celebrate every improvement. Record videos every week. Take pictures. You will forget how bad it is right now. You will start to take it for granted, when your child improves. How do I deal with anger towards doctors and corporates that “gave” my child autism? You can’t heal (yourself and others) in a state of stress / fight or flight. If you are stuck in blame, anger and obsessed with battling and protesting against the authorities that “did this” to your child, you will not be able to tap into the healing state of an open heart, oneness and connection. One of the biggest roadblocks to healing is separation and indignation. We are one. And there are no mistakes on this journey. Remember, everything happened FOR your awakening, including the bad experiences (see links from Bruce Lipton below about healing). Your Questions Answered © B A R E F O O T A U T I S M WA R R I O R S | N I N K A - B E R N A D E T T E M A U R I T S O N . A L L R I G H T S R E S E R V E D . 5 The Autism Turnaround Mindset Guide This is your big wake up call. And we all need to face our own responsibilities. 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