Remerciez-le!

Remerciez @Admin pour avoir partagé cet document gratuitement, de la manière la plus simple, en partageant sur les réseaux sociaux.

## Rule 1: Develop new skills Show up everyday. No matter how you feel, follo

## Rule 1: Develop new skills *Show up everyday.* No matter how you feel, follow the discipline. *Your feelings should be OFF.* Do things without thinking. ## Rule 2: Get comfortable with being uncomfortable You need to start small and develop as you progress (eg. go to the gym 2 times a week, then 3 times, then 4). Get good at your skills through consistency. *Do uncomfortable things until they become comfortable.* - Everyone has their own insecurities and everyone is focused on trying to become their higher self. ## Rule 3: Push yourself to do things that scare you I will never be confident if I don’t do the things I am uncomfortable with. Until I develop skills, until I push myself, *until I can prove to myself that I can do better — that’s when I will feel confident.* ## Rule 4: Accept and really feel certain emotions until they go away If you get red in the face and notice it, you will keep getting redder and more awkward. If you accept and ignore that your getting red, nobody will care either and slowly it will go away. - Wave at people on the bus. Some will wave back, some will ignore. *Push yourself to talk to people (people love having conversations because it’s beautiful).* ## Rule 5: Be open to talk to strangers/network God sends *people* to give you *opportunities.* ## Rule 6: Let go of perfectionism If Liz wouldn’t have uploaded her first video where her lips looked bad, she wouldn‘t have had this youtube channel and success. - When you’re creating a craft or a business, and you’re insecure about your business or yourself, it does not matter to others, what matters is “Is what I am saying good for people, will it uplift people?” If yes, then does it matter the way I look? It doesn’t affect anyone! - What matters is what I am delivering, what I am serving to people, in order to achieve my goal. Not what they think of me. ## Rule 7: Create routines A routine organises your mind. ## Rule 8: Take care of your inner and outer appearance Always be clean and smell good. Always wear ironed clothes. Always look after yourself because it shows to the world how they should take care of me. ## Rule 8: Work on your posture Good posture can make anyone look aristocratic. Move a lot to develop back muscles and good posture. ## Rule 9: Create another version of you until it becomes you Create another version of you that can do anything and be anything. Act like the highest version of yourself and you will become the highest version of yourself. Visualise: - What is your higher version? - What are your highest version’s hobbies? - What is she good at? - With whom does she hang out? - Who does she date? ** “Is this something the highest version of myself would do?” if it’s not, don’t do it. ## Rule 10: Use the “okay and?” mentality They do not find you attractive - okay and? You tried a business and it failed - okay and? Do it again, and again, and again until you are successful. ## Rule 11: Realize this life is temporary Becoming the best version of you will put people down. Put your energy and time into becoming your highest version. ## Rule 12: Realize how weird other people are Every person has something weird about them, a weird quirk, all these little things and that’s the beauty of it. People are weird, people have insecurities, people laugh in a weird way, people talk in weird way and that’s amazing. Meet people, sign up to classes, and you will see that those people are just exactly like you. ## Rule 13: Quit social media It’s gonna drain you, so quit and focus on working on yourself for yourself. ## Rule 14: You are not that important It gives you freedom, it allows you to do whatever you feel is good and best for you. People have lots and lots of problems. You are least of their problems. You are not that important, and everyone must be focused on themselves. You are thinking about you, and they are thinking about them. ## Rule 15: Love yourself whilst in the process Trying to become the highest version of yourself doesn’t mean you don’t need to love this version. Take care and love yourself for working so hard on your goals. There are bad days, so what? You always come out on top of it. You try to break her? Nope, she comes back again. You try to subdue me but I come back multiplied because I want to win and I am going to win. ## Rule 16: Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love Why is telling yourself that you are beautiful, amazing, mesmerizing considered cringy? We talk like this to our friends, to our family, to our lover. But talking to yourself like that is cringy? If you are not willing to look yourself in the eye and tell yourself how amazing and proud you are, you will not be able to accept those compliments or love from someone else. ## Rule 17: Walk into places like you own the place You’re scared of that job interview? — why did they choose you to come in? if you were not qualified, you would not be called to come. You’re scared to do that presentation in front of people? — these people are there to listen to what you’re saying. You have the time to speak your mind. It’s a form of respect they have for you. You’re scared to go on that date? — think about: do I even like this person, are they even good enough? - *If you are involved in things it’s because you are capable of mastering them.* - Thing exist, things already happened. If it’s possible for other people, it’s possible for you. ## Rule 18: You don’t need to prove yourself If what you are trying to do is a good thing and has good intentions, that’s good enough. People are different and they will not understand you. The vision was given to you, not them. When something is given to you and you want it bad enough, you do not listen and do not wait for their approval. - The fact that you think it’s good and you have good intention is enough to accomplish what you want to accomplish. People only come when you are successful. ## Rule 19: Realize you know nothing and be willing to learn from others We all don’t know anything and that’s amazing. The more you realize that you know nothing the more you are willing to learn. ## Rule 20: Stop trying to “fill in” and really listen to people Listen to people without interrupting. Do not constantly agree with them, because if they think what they are saying is valuable, they do not need your reassurance. Don’t just react. Hear and think about the conversations you have because people teach beautiful things. - You’re only gonna learn if you’re willing to listen to them, if you actually believe that what another person teaches you can be valuable. Either way you don’t know it all, you will never know it all. ## Rule 21: God always provides God removes people and things from your life because *He knows what He is doing and He has a better plan.* Everything always worked out for the best and without God I would not be where I am today. I was meant to be successful, I was meant for greatness, so whatever He does is for my greatness. Allow Him. *God always provides.* - Thank Him for everything - Ask Him There is no good or bad there is just fate. Anything that happens in your life was meant to happen, to put you to a point where you are now. uploads/Litterature/ guide - 2023-05-29T110519.003.pdf